It was just a few days ago. We had to go to a wedding party in the evening. Everyone was busy with their preparations. Rajan was also ready to go. Before leaving for the wedding, there was a discussion about something. During this conversation, someone said something bitter to Rajan in a very wrong tone and with abusive words.
It is not that Rajan was right, he had heard something from someone's mouth and he was not able to understand that thing and it can also be said that he had misunderstood. That is why he was putting this thing forward. But someone replied to him in a very wrong tone and in bitter words. Those bitter words pierced his heart. The excitement and little happiness of going to the wedding turned into pain
But he had to go to the wedding. So Rajan also went to the wedding with everyone but with a heavy heart, but even on the way, those words kept piercing his mind. Although on the way his mind was entertained by seeing different scenes and hearing and speaking different things. But those bitter words were coming to his mind again and again and were pricking his heart.
However, during the wedding, when he met different people, saw the wedding decorations, started thinking about some new and old things, he forgot that bitter thing for some time. But bitter words are bitter words, no one can forget them so easily, especially when they are spoken on a special occasion and hurt the heart. As long as the wedding party was going on, it was fine. Rajan had almost succeeded in forgetting that thing.
But when he sat in the car and started going back home with everyone, that thing started roaming in his mind again and as he came home, the thing started dominating his heart. He started thinking about that thing in many ways, like he should reply to that thing with the same bitter words and he was also thinking what all could be said in reply. Sometimes he used to think what good would come out of this and the matter would only get worse. Would it be right to do wrong after seeing something wrong. Anyway, he has to move forward in life with everyone together. So fighting is not a solution. It is not the first time this has happened to him. This has happened before and who knows if it will happen again.
But one should not say such bitter things or things that hurt. And they should not have been said. Although tolerating wrong is also wrong. But it was not right to respond bitterly to the bitterness that was stinging him inside. But thinking about this thing again and again, he was able to understand how Duryodhana must have felt at that time when Draupadi laughed and said loudly that the son of a blind man is blind after he made a mistake.
Some people even say that these words were the main reason for the Mahabharata war. And it is also true that the war that happened did not benefit anyone nor did it eradicate any evil except destruction. Therefore, fighting or giving the same answer is not a solution. In that painful condition, Rajan tried to control his emotions and also decided that he would never use such words for anyone that hurts someone, even if the other person is wrong. Until he finds or understands the right solution to this problem, he will not take any wrong step in anger. From now on, he will be cautious about such things so that such a situation does not arise.
And what happened next was that gradually, as time passed, Rajan forgot about that incident and by controlling himself, he avoided taking any such step which could have worsened the situation and it could have happened that Rajan would have regretted later that why did he do that. He should not have done that.
By the way, this story is not just of one Rajan, this happens often in all of our lives, sometimes at home, sometimes in offices, sometimes while travelling somewhere. But not everyone is able to control himself like Rajan and the situation gets worse. Most of the things that go wrong in our society, whether it is a quarrel in the family, partition, fight between two friends, debate or estrangement in offices, or anywhere else, such things mostly happen due to bitter words or due to wrong behaviour.
As far as possible, everyone should try their best not to say anything bitter or hurtful to anyone and behave well with everyone.
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